If your child only listens to you when you raise your voice, the problem may not be just… — @mike_on_parenting

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@mike_on_parenting's TikTok video "If your child only listens to you when you raise your voice, the problem may not be just the behavior in that moment. Because taking action when you yell does not mean that yelling actually works. Over time, the following cycle may develop: • You say the same thing repeatedly. • Your child waits. • When your voice gets louder, they take action. • You also begin to think that they only listen when you yell. • They may learn that the boundary is only real when you raise your voice. Then this cycle spreads to every area, from putting on shoes to mealtime, from the bedtime routine to leaving the house. This does not mean that you are a bad parent. It simply means that a communication cycle that needs to be changed may have developed. If you haven’t watched my previous Reel, go check it out. Because before changing this cycle, you need to understand how it formed. In the next reel, I’ll explain where you can start instead of saying the same thing over and over again. Would you like a practical exercise like this for changing this cycle without yelling? Write CALM in the comments. #parentingtips #parentingadvice #positiveparenting #calmparenting #familydynamics" has 2,392 views, 84 likes, 18 comments, 28 shares in the public metrics captured by this index. That is an engagement rate of 5.43% (likes, comments and shares over views). It was posted over two weeks ago and runs 1 minute 4 seconds. It has been saved 31 times.

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It was posted on 2026-09-20, over two weeks ago.

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