Parents, we’ve all been there—trying to guide our teens with punishment or fear, thinking… — @alypain

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@alypain's TikTok video "Parents, we’ve all been there—trying to guide our teens with punishment or fear, thinking it would get results. But research shows that approach can actually harm their mental health, especially for teens with ADHD or those struggling in school. What if instead of trying to control, we focused on connection? Saying, "It’s okay that you don’t know. We’ll figure it out together" might be the shift they need. Comment "CONNECT" and I'll send you my free tools or click the link in my bio! #mommingishard #mommingsohard #parentingadvice #parentingishard #parentingteens #raisingteens #empoweringparents" has 120 views, 3 likes, 0 comments, 0 shares in the public metrics captured by this index. That is an engagement rate of 2.5% (likes, comments and shares over views). It was posted over two weeks ago and runs 40 seconds.

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How many views does this TikTok video have?

The capture indexed here reports 120 views, 3 likes and 0 comments.

Who posted this TikTok video?

It was posted by @alypain, who is linked from this page.

What is this TikTok video's engagement rate?

Across the captured metrics the engagement rate is 2.5% (likes + comments + shares over views).

When was this TikTok video posted?

It was posted on 2026-10-20, over two weeks ago.

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The capture links 4 hashtags, starting with #parentingadvice.

How long is this TikTok video?

The captured clip runs 40 seconds.