Your child raises a toy to hit you, and you need to stop it before the hit happens. So yo… — @drdeborahparenting

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@drdeborahparenting's TikTok video "Your child raises a toy to hit you, and you need to stop it before the hit happens. So you gesture with your hand or give them a look, hoping they'll understand what you mean. You're trying to prevent the hit. But a gesture does not tell your child the boundary or what happens when they cross it. Here's what to do instead. Give yourself one response. The moment the toy goes up, stop the moment. Take their hand and say: "We don't hit." If they hit anyway, take the toy and say: "We don't hit." Then remove the toy from the interaction. The consequence confirms the boundary. Now your child begins learning something predictable. When you try to hit, the action stops. Correction does not need to become a discussion. The boundary is stated. The action follows. That's the Safe Body Removal Protocol. If you want the exact system for what to do when your child hits, kicks, or gets physical, so you never have to figure it out in the moment, get the Parenting OS. #ParentingTips #ParentCoach #ParentSupport #ParentingCommunity #Parenting" has 112,813 views, 2,808 likes, 51 comments, 479 shares in the public metrics captured by this index. That is an engagement rate of 2.96% (likes, comments and shares over views). It was posted over two weeks ago and runs 1 minute 27 seconds. It has been saved 603 times.

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The capture indexed here reports 112,813 views, 2,808 likes and 51 comments.

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Across the captured metrics the engagement rate is 2.96% (likes + comments + shares over views).

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It was posted on 2026-09-24, over two weeks ago.

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The captured clip runs 1 minute 27 seconds.