Your child hears no, drops to the floor, and starts crying. You stand there because you'r… — @drdeborahparenting

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@drdeborahparenting's TikTok video "Your child hears no, drops to the floor, and starts crying. You stand there because you're trying to figure out what will help without making the moment bigger. Here's what to do instead. Give yourself one response for every tantrum: state, stop, follow through. If you're at home, state the limit once. Say, "When you settle down, we can talk." Then stop talking. No explaining. No negotiating. When your child settles, follow through with the original decision and move on. If you're in public and the tantrum prevents you from continuing, pick your child up and leave. Do not stay in the moment trying different responses. Now your child begins learning something predictable. Crying does not change the decision. The tantrum does not delay the boundary. Settling down allows the day to continue. If you want to know exactly what to do when your child has a tantrum after hearing no, get The Parenting OS. #ParentingTips #ParentCoach #ParentSupport #ParentingCommunity #Parenting" has 41,906 views, 1,014 likes, 48 comments, 211 shares in the public metrics captured by this index. That is an engagement rate of 3.04% (likes, comments and shares over views). It was posted over two weeks ago and runs 1 minute 23 seconds. It has been saved 253 times.

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The capture indexed here reports 41,906 views, 1,014 likes and 48 comments.

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Across the captured metrics the engagement rate is 3.04% (likes + comments + shares over views).

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It was posted on 2026-09-17, over two weeks ago.

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The captured clip runs 1 minute 23 seconds.