When your child hits and you give three warnings and a long explanation, the first hit be… — @drdeborahparenting

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@drdeborahparenting's TikTok video "When your child hits and you give three warnings and a long explanation, the first hit becomes the beginning of a longer process. Now hitting produces more talking, more warnings, and more attention before anything actually changes. That makes the first warning easy to ignore. Here's what to do instead. The first hit changes access. The moment your child hits or kicks, stop the hit and say: "I won't let you hit." Then immediately change the activity. If they are hitting during play, stop the play. If they are hitting you, create distance. If they are using an object to hit, remove the object. Do not give three warnings first. Do not turn it into a long explanation. One behavior creates one predictable change. Hitting changes access. That is the pattern you want them learning. The Parenting OS gives you the full hitting system: what changes after the hit, how long it changes, and how your child returns to the activity without you improvising every time. #ParentingTips #ParentCoach #ParentSupport #ParentingCommunity #Parenting" has 14,508 views, 412 likes, 10 comments, 145 shares in the public metrics captured by this index. That is an engagement rate of 3.91% (likes, comments and shares over views). It was posted over two weeks ago and runs 1 minute 27 seconds. It has been saved 108 times.

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The capture indexed here reports 14,508 views, 412 likes and 10 comments.

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What is this TikTok video's engagement rate?

Across the captured metrics the engagement rate is 3.91% (likes + comments + shares over views).

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It was posted on 2026-09-09, over two weeks ago.

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The captured clip runs 1 minute 27 seconds.