According to the psychologist Alison Gopnik, there is a good way to raise children, and t… — @philosophyminis

動画のインサイト

@philosophyminisのTikTok動画「According to the psychologist Alison Gopnik, there is a good way to raise children, and there is a bad way to raise children. There is a way that hammers the child into a kind of personality. It has an idea of what a perfect person or childhood should be, and it wrenches the child through that vision. And then there is a way that allows the child to grow. In Gopnik's words, the difference is between being a gardener parent and a carpenter parent. A carpenter parent shapes the child, it controls, and it micromanages every aspect of the kid's life. It's the dad who drives his daughter to karate without asking her if she wants to go. It's the mum who interferes to build the toy the proper way, or the grandparent who steps in every second to prevent mistakes or accidents. In other words, the child is left to work, to play, and to live within these carefully controlled and narrow parameters. Gopnik argues that this is more likely to create a risk-averse, anxious, and dependent child who is less able to adapt to a world that doesn't go according to plan. Instead, the gardener parent provides a space for the child to fail, to experiment, and to discover themselves. It allows the child to choose an after-school club, to slap Lego together as they like, and to tinker and to wander freely in the woods. Gopnik's point isn't that a child shouldn't have boundaries. Kids need boundaries, and they need protecting. But her point is that a kid is not a sculpture to make, but a plant to let grow. And there's a million different ways that any one of us can actually grow.」は、このインデックスが取得した公開指標で76,862回再生、6,437いいね、84コメント、764シェアとなっています。 エンゲージメント率は9.48%です（再生数に対する、いいね・コメント・シェアの割合）。 投稿されたのは2週間以上前で、再生時間は1 分34 秒です。 1,243回保存されています。

よくある質問

このTikTok動画の再生数は？

ここにインデックスされた取得データでは、76,862回再生、6,437いいね、84コメントです。

このTikTok動画を投稿したのは誰ですか？

@philosophyminisが投稿しました。投稿者へのリンクはこのページにあります。

このTikTok動画のエンゲージメント率は？

取得した指標全体で、エンゲージメント率は9.48%です（いいね＋コメント＋シェアを再生数で割った値）。

このTikTok動画はいつ投稿されましたか？

2026-09-28（2週間以上前）に投稿されました。

このTikTok動画の長さは？

取得したクリップの再生時間は1 分34 秒です。